‘How My Grandparents Fell in Love’ Tells an Emotional Story

NJ Repertory Company Presents a New Musical

It can be fun to hear about how people who love each other first met. This is especially true when it’s part of your own family. That very subject is covered in a new show commissioned by New Jersey Repertory Company (NJ Rep) and now playing at their theater in Long Branch, NJ. How My Grandparents Fell in Love is based upon a true story which adds to the enjoyment of seeing this show.

Although this is an enjoyable show to see, there are a few things that can be difficult to watch especially as related to the time and setting. But there is still a remarkable story told by a cast of two people within the boundaries of a setting heading for trouble. The music adds some additional emotional tones that might not be reached with just pure dialogue. Under the direction of Music Supervisor Matthew Lowy, there is an onstage piano player cleverly situated on one side of the stage who blends wonderfully into the show.

How My Grandparents Fell in Love is based on a true story. Cary Gitter wrote the book for the show. The music is by Neil Berg who also contributes to the lyrics along with Cary Gitter. The show is directed by SuzAnne Barabas.

How it Begins

The story is set in 1933 in Rovno, Poland (now Rivne, Ukraine). However, it opens in current day in a lecture hall at an American college decades later with a narrator telling the story.

We meet Charlie (Harris Milgrim) who left Poland to come to the United States 10 years before. Charlie lives in Hoboken and is in the shoe trade. However, he has now returned to his native country to find a wife. One day, Charlie looked in a hat shop window and saw Chava (Becca Suskauer). and was enchanted by the lovely, bright colors she was wearing. He finds a way to meet her.

Photo credit Andrea Phox

Chava agrees to meet Charlie for some tea. She tells him she wants to learn about America and he gladly tells her about life in the U.S. Then, she tells him she wants to be a scholar and is planning to go to the University in Warsaw. There are definite sparks of interest between the two and Charlie feels that he may have found his future wife. Chava is not as sure. This is where the setting comes into play.

The Setting is Crucial to the Story Development

Both Chava and Charlie are Jewish. The year is 1933, just at the point where the Hitler/Nazi era is beginning to emerge. Already, Chava’s family is being affected because her brother is working with a group to provide information about what is happening. Despite this, Chava does not think that things will change that much but Charlie does.

In the midst of this story playing out, the couple hear about the 1933 burning of the German parliament buildings. This is a significant event because the Nazi leadership claims that Communists were planning a violent uprising. According to information found on the Holocaust Encyclopedia website, “They claimed that emergency legislation was needed to prevent this. The resulting act, commonly known as the Reichstag Fire Decree, abolished a number of constitutional protections and paved the way for Nazi dictatorship.” The wave of Antisemitism reaches new, frightening heights.

Suddenly, there is more reason than ever before for Chava to consider Charlie’s offer of marriage and a move to America. But she has concerns about leaving her home and her family.

The way the remainder of the musical plays out gives you the answer to what Chava decides to do. I will say that it’s a heartwarming show and one that will give you something to think about as it finishes. I had my tissues out as it ended and I saw many others in audience doing the same.

Now What About that Music?

This show has original music played by a single piano player on stage. Milgrim and Suskauer have very nice singing voices and their interpretations give more depth to the action taking place.

There are 14 songs. A standout is “Oh, Hoboken” which where Charlie tells Chava about where he lives in the U.S. “I’m Going to Be a Scholar” is also well done as Chava explains her dreams to Charlie. Charlie makes his intentions known to Chava in “I Wouldn’t Want Anything (To Happen to You). Finally, “Into the Dawn” ends the show.

If I may be slightly critical of anything in this production, it would be that a few of the songs need a little bit of work. It seems like the need to rhyme in a few was more than needed. The intentions of the songs in so much of this music accomplishes their purpose very well.

Go to See How My Grandparents Fell in Love

It isn’t often that NJ Rep runs musicals at its Long Branch theater. This company has a long history of successfully introducing new plays to the theater world and this latest offering is a fine example of their work.

The response to this show is so good that additional shows have been added to three of the Sunday schedules. Make sure to get your tickets to see this How My Grandparents Fell in Love. It is only scheduled to play now through August 10, 2025.

Visit the NJ Rep website to get your tickets and for more information.

A Final Word

Spend a little time in the theater lobby either before the show or during intermission. You will enjoy seeing some small drawings with Yiddish sayings on the walls designed to show the creativity of Yiddish. Here are a few examples:

Photo by Karen Nowosad
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‘The Complete Works of William Shakespeare’ Extends Its Run in Madison, NJ

Good Summer Theater in New Jersey

The Shakespeare Theatre of New Jersey (STNJ)’s summer offering is The Complete Works of William Shakespeare (abridged) [revised] [again]. It is a fast paced, high energy, and humorous presentation of the works of The Bard.

The STNJ website describes the show as:

“All 37 Plays in 99 Minutes!”

Fasten your seat belts for a high-energy, slapstick rollercoaster ride through Shakespeare’s entire canon! Three madcap actors scamper their hapless way through all the comedies, tragedies, histories, and romances in one hysterical, fast-paced, and irreverent evening that will leave you rolling in the aisles with laughter. 

I wanted to participate in the special Food Drive at the first preview performance so I went ahead and attended the show that night. It was very enjoyable to watch the play because it is very funny and an interesting romp through much of the Shakespeare catalog. I wish I could have seen this play when I took my Shakespeare class in college because it would have helped me better understand all that was there from the Bard.

Different this summer for STNJ is that this play is in the air conditioned Kirby Theatre rather than outdoors. There is a certain charm to seeing Shakespeare outside in the summer, but this allows you to escape the heat and enjoy a first rate show!

Kayla Ryan Walsh giving some funny moments with a kitchen analogy – Photo from STNJ

How it was Written and Who Acts in It

The original version was written by Adam Long, Daniel Singer, and Jess Winfield. It was performed a number of years ago at STNJ. The new revisions are by Daniel Singer and Jess Winfield.

Before the play even beings, your program sets that humorous tone: It lists the TIME: Just enough and then PLACE: Madison, NJ duh

Only three actors are in the play and they cover a number of different parts. The team of three includes Ty Lane, Patrick Toon, and Kayla Ryan Walsh. I would like to know their secret for how they are able to work through the entire show without collapsing! Their energy level is incredible. They are either on stage, or backstage changing costumes, or zooming down the side isles.In a word, the cast is amazing.

The show is directed by Jeffrey M. Bender. Mr. Bender was in that previous production of The Complete Works. In fact, in his Director’s Notes in the program, he writes that it was “truly the most rewarding theatrical experience of my life.” He also recounts that he proposed to his wife on opening night. That alone gives you some idea of how special this show is! Mr. Bender does a very fine job of bringing all the important elements of this show together. Especially impressive is the way he works with the three actors to bring out special characteristics of each one’s approach to humor.

Kayla Ryan Walsh and Ty Lane in one of their many costume changes. Photo from STNJ

The Complete Works of William Shakespeare Now Extended

Due to popular demand, The Complete Works of William Shakespeare (abridged) [revised] [again] has extended its run! Now you can enjoy this show from July 9 – August 3rd, 2025.

Purchase tickets online at ShakespeareNJ.org.

Patrick Toon gives grand opening remarks to the audience (amongst other things!)

In addition to the show, STNJ is offering a nice variety of events on show days. These events do a wonderful job of creating a community within the theater.

Not shown on this list is the gallery available right in the Kirby Theater. Check with an usher for more information.

Special Events

  • “Pay What You CAN” Food Drive — Wednesday, July 9th starting at 7:00 p.m.: Bring two canned goods and get $10 admission.
  • Opening Night — Saturday, July 12th at 7:30 p.m.: Celebrate with champagne toast at intermission and a post-show reception.
  • Symposium — Tuesday, July 15th following performance: Engage with the cast during a lively post-show chat.
  • Touch Tour — Wednesday, July 16th starting at 1:00 p.m.: Interact with certain props, costumes, and set pieces before the performance, designed for patrons with additional needs.
  • Know-the-Show Series & Closed-Captioning — Thursday, July 17th starting at 6:45 p.m.: Learn from the Artistic Team prior to the show. Closed-captioning available.
  • Storefront To Stage — Friday, July 18th starting at 6:30 p.m.: Connect with your local businesses before the show and during intermission.
  • Symposium — Saturday, July 19th following matinee performance: Engage with the cast during a lively post-show chat.
  • Ice Cream Social — Wednesday, July 23rd starting at 6:30 p.m.: Join us for a fun and yummy pre-show event!
  • Sensory Seminar & Audio-Described Performance — Thursday, July 24th starting at 6:30 p.m.: Get a hands-on experience at the Theatre, designed for Blind/low-vision patrons.
  • Hobnob & Hang — Friday, July 25th following performance: Mix and mingle with fellow theatre lovers after the show!
  • Symposium — Saturday, July 26th following matinee performance: Engage with the cast during a lively post-show chat.
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STNJ Opens New Season with ‘The Importance of Being Earnest’

Alvin Keith as Reverend Chasuble, Joyce Meimei Zheng as Cecily Cardew, Marion Adler as Lady Bracknell, Carolyne Leys as Gwendolen Fairfax, Tug Rice as John ‘Jack’ Worthing, Celia Schaefer as Miss Prism and Christian Frost as Algernon Moncrieff. Photo by Avery Brunkus.

Review – The Importance of Being Earnest

The Shakespeare Theatre of New Jersey (STNJ) begins their 63rd Season with a rousing production of Oscar Wilde’s most celebrated play The Importance of Being Earnest. Wilde described the play as “a trivial comedy for serious people.” Notes in the STNJ program for this play indicate that it pokes fun “at Victorian society’s obsession with appearances, respectability, and rigid social codes.” These issues are examined in the behaviors of the characters, each with a specific task in mind.

The production at STNJ carries out these issues in grand style under the superb direction of Brian B. Crowe. Crowe gives us characters who deliver the sharp dialog and clever wordplay for which Oscar Wilde is so well known. Additionally, comedic touches flourish throughout the show. Especially impressive is the pace of the show which allows the audience to listen and fully enjoy it all. A strong cast delivers all of this with great polish and assurance making this a very fine play to see and enjoy.

Well designed sets with furniture representative of Victorian society are seen throughout the show. You may even spot a fainting couch! Beautiful costumes complete the Victorian look of the show.

“The truth is rarely pure and never simple.”

This quote gives a brief thought about what Wilde covers in the play. There are many funny lines delivered throughout the play which attempt to explain situations and descriptions of those circumstances the characters are in. But when one looks at it, the characters themselves have created their own situations.

A major focus of The Importance of Being Earnest is on Algernon Moncrieff (Christian Frost) and John “Jack” Worthing (Tug Rice). Both turn in marvelous performances as they create second identities for themselves. Their concern about appearances involves using different names depending on which residence they are at. Coincidentally, both use the name, Earnest. Both have romantic interests and their ladies both fancy the name Earnest. Both men have distinct ideas about marriage which they discuss at length. Much is hidden about them and it takes time to come out.

Richard Bourg plays the roles of Lane and Merriman very humorously. The character Lane is a butler to Algernon and Merriman serves Jack Worthington. His movements and actions are done in comedic style especially one scene when luggage is being moved in and out. Another notable group of actions occurs as Lane is preparing cucumber sandwiches for guests. Much is made of these sandwiches and it is very funny as one realizes how important having them on hand for guests was. This pokes fun at the rigidity of social codes of the time.

Respectability and Appearances

When it comes to the issues of respectability, Lady Augusta Bracknell has them all beat.

Marion Adler as Lady Augusta Bracknell – Photo by Avery Brunkus.

Marion Adler does a superb performance as she rants and raves basically giving etiquette lessons along the way. Carolyne Leys plays her daughter, Gwendolen Fairfax, with an appropriate amount of restraint while eyeing Jack Worthington for marriage.

Joyce Meimei Zheng plays the 18 year old Cecily Cardew. Her character is adorable as she writes in her diary. In her mind, she is already engaged to Algernon. He happily finds this out.

Two more characters add to fun of the show. One is the Revd. Canon Chasuble played by in good humorous style by Alvin Keith. Since there is confusion with the name Earnest, the Reverend steps in with offers of christenings. However, the discovery of a suitcase appears to solve many problems. It has been hidden for years and Miss Letitia Prism tells the story of what the bag is about. Celia Schaefer plays Prism who is Cecily’s governess in a most convincing teacher type manner.

In the end, everyone understands what the importance of being Earnest means. And that pleases them greatly!

Go to See The Importance of Being Earnest

This very amusing play runs approximately 2 hours 35 minutes with one 15 minute intermission after Act I and 5 minute pause after Act II.

Tickets and more information are available through the Shakespeare Theatre of New Jersey website or call the Box Office at (973) 408-5600.

This production runs through June 1, 2025 on the Main Stage, The F.M. Kirby Shakespeare Theatre, 36 Madison Avenue at Lancaster Road in Madison, NJ.

Special Events at the Theater

•Hobnob & Hang is on Friday, May 23 at 7:30 p.m. This is a chance to mix and mingle after the show. Snacks and cash bar are available.

•The Wilde Garden Party is on Wednesday, May 28 starting at 6:30 p.m. This is your chance to Go Victorian when you join STNJ on the patio for a festive Wilde-themed pre-show gathering.

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